One of the most important things to do when becoming a dominatrix is to establish your boundaries. You’ll want to set your rates, decide how many sessions you want to work per week, and decide which fetishes you will and will not work with. You’ll also want to decide what is and isn’t off limits in your relationship. This includes everything from types of equipment you’ll use to the amount of pain you’ll inflict. It’s important that you’re honest with yourself and your partner about what you are and aren’t willing to do. This will help you avoid any confusion down the road. Once you’ve established your boundaries, you’ll want to let your partner know.